According to ("Cambridge Dictionary", 2018): Multitasking is "a person'sabilityto do more than one thing at atime".
In these times millions of people have been in need of becoming multitasking because they do not have enough time to fulfill them all as well as possible, so they prefer to do everything at the same time, but what they do not know is that doing so many tasks at the time can generate consequences towards the human body, harming the health
1. The Alpha Couple. This is the couple that is constantly crushing it. They both have jobs that require at least eight years of graduate studies. There's nothing wrong with them and they're perfectly fine people, but hearing about their life makes you feel bad.
2. The Couple That Does Everything First. First to get engaged. First to marry. First to pop out a kid. It's like they're winning a race against no one, frantically trying to "do all the grownup stuff".
3. The Crazy-in-Love Couple. This couple is your entire social network feed. They love each other but they're more concerned with telling everyone else than they are each other. They use "bae" unironically. You've probably unfollowed them by now.
4. The Why-Are-You-Still-Together? Couple. This is the couple that must have mind-blowing sex because you can't figure out whey else they'd still be together. They argue and "break up" and blast each other online constantly. You've had to console them at least twice after breakups, only for them to get back together a week later. They both look sad whenever you see them.
5. The Ghost Couple. They started dating and now they're gone. Just gone. You've verified they're still alive, as they sporadically update their Facebook photos, but they will never hang out with you again.
6. The Long-Distance Couple. One of them lives nearby, so you feel bad not inviting them to couple's events, and then feel bad when they're essentially a perpetual third wheel anyway.
7. The Way-Too-Chill Couple. You wouldn't even know it if they broke up. They barely hang out together. They go out alone, they don't even spend holidays together. It works for them, apparently, but you're pretty sure they go months without speaking.
Maintaining a relationship in a good way is a complicated task, because if only one member of the couple is concerned to bring good communion, trust, love and others, the problems will occur and this will lead to end the relationship.
A relationship is on the right track, when both are completely in love with each other, when both know the virtues and defects between each other, when there is communication, when they try to extend their love beyond what is allowed. A good romance is one that despite everything bad and good fight to be together and be the support of each other.
Source: (ShortStatusQuotes, 2018)
To know if you follow a good relationship with your partner, (Husain, I. 2018) adds the following signs:
You spend time apart, doing things you enjoy:
When you're in the right relationship, your partner understands that there are things you want to do alone. We all need time to do our own things, and the right relationship is one in which both understand and appreciate that about each other.
You maintain self-identity:
You celebrate being you. Your partner does the same. And you appreciate each other more for maintaining your self-identity. In the right relationship both are nurtured to continuously improve and develop their “self.”
Both tips are good to be able to continue with your partner without any problem in the future. First love yourself so you can love someone else.
According to Elaine Fantle Shimberg, author of Blending Families, all relationship problems are due to poor communication. "You can not communicate while you're checking your cell phone, watching TV or flipping through the sports section," he says. (Sorgen, s.f.)
The lack of communication can cause serious problems in relationships, because if they do not communicate, they do not know the things that bother them, or what they would like the other to do.
(Mattia, 2017)
Problem solving strategies:
Make a real appointment between them, says Shimberg. If you live together, put the cell phones on vibration, put the children to bed and let the voicemail pick up your calls. If you can not "communicate" without raising your voice, go to a public place like the library, the park or the restaurant, where you would be ashamed if someone saw you scream. Set some rules Try not to interrupt until your partner is talking, or ban phrases like "Always ..." or "Never ...". Use body language to show that you are listening. Do not scribble, look at your watch or cut your nails. Not for the other person to know that you are receiving the message, and reformulate if necessary. For example, say: "What I hear you say is that you feel you have more homework, even though we both work." If you're right, the other can confirm. If what the other person really meant was: "Hey, you're a slob and you create more work for me by having to pick up after you", you can say, but in a more pleasant way. Relationship problem: communication (Sorgen, s.f.)
As you can see we know that there will always be one way or another to solve problems, if they do not reach a solution, this means that this relationship does not allow for more, and this affects a lot if the couple has already formed a family.
On the society exist some stereotypes about how it has to be your perfect couple, but in a way of conclusion, a perfecto couple does not exist, in all the couple always are going to be some trouble but there is the difference, the perfect couple, Knows how give a way that a continue in the relationship, the rule #1 always have to be the confidence, this is one of the most important part in every relationship, the couple alway has to have confidence no matter what the people say, you have to trust on the person that you love. Rules #2 Be honest: this is a harmful rule, no because it always have to say the true, no it is because in some cases be honest is a way in which one you can make no trouble, but is better say a difficult true than a beautiful lie.
This are the most important rules that you have to follow if you want to have the best honest and confidence relationships ever
MAKE THE TEST!!!!
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Perfect couple:
Now days most people in the world are anxious to find their perfect partner. They are stressed because they do not have a great company or as many call them their "soul mate" or also their beloved "half orange", they fear to spend the rest of their lives alone, sad and abandoned for not finding the right person.
Source: (FULBRIGHT, 2013)
On many occasions we risk traveling to places unknown to ourselves, to achieve an unparalleled adventure as in many Hollywood movies. What we do not realize is that we do not need to make these mistakes because the person we have been waiting or dreaming for a long time may be right now next to us or may be next to your house.
Source: (Fozzey, 2013)
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What is the idealization that society has established about the perfect couple through time?
Source: (Fisher, 2015)
The perfect couple is the result of the years of hard work and continual efforts to make your relationship stronger. And, eventually and the most importantly, perfect couples remind each other how much they care about each other.
Although, this could be every day.
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There are
really many theories about how this date came about, but the important thing is
that this custom was spreading throughout Europe and later to the United
States. Thus, in the nineteenth century in Britain appeared the habit of
sending romantic heart-shaped postcards to lovers, with romantic drawings. They
were sold generically in stores and they were very popular. In fact, one of the
people responsible for the popularization of this party in the United States
was the artist and businesswoman Esther Allen Howland, who after her business
was very successful in Great Britain was in charge of exporting massive amounts
of romantic cards to America. North. From there, this practice was popularized
and still continues to be maintained. (Lorenzo, 2017)
Although
its origin was in another continent, this date or celebration came to America
to stay, since most Americans celebrate it every year. Valentine's Day has
become very popular throughout the ages and especially extending to different
places.
February 14
is not a holiday, however, Americans are very excited to celebrate. Therefore,
it is the official day of love in this great country. If you go out to the
street you will see that almost all businesses are decorated with romantic
motifs and offer discounts and irresistible offers: clothing stores,
perfumeries, travel agencies, cafes, supermarkets, restaurants, etc. (Lorenzo,
2017)
This date
became commercial, the sellers did not waste time and as soon as they saw that
people needed to give gifts to their loved ones, and in that way make them feel
special and that they mean a lot to them.
The gifts:
In its origins, it was frequent that only men gave gifts to those in love, but
as society has evolved they have also changed gender roles now both men and
women can show their love in the way they think is appropriate. Finally,
couples who live at a distance often send postcards by mail or give gifts by
mail, living far away is no longer an excuse. (Lorenzo, 2017)
The famous
gift of Valentine's Day has been the famous love letters, in which each of the
people expresses their feelings towards others and makes them know the things
they think and feel for them.
The society has been evolving and gender
equality has been immersed in this celebration, since in the past it was
mandatory for men to give the gift to their girlfriend, but nowadays the woman
can also take the initiative to give the gift to her boyfriend. Also, sexual orientation has been immersed in this celebration too, as USA is the country of freedom, the LGBTIQ+ community celebrates San Valentine's Day.
San Valentine days is one of the performance more celebrated in all the world, and when you establish a relation with someone the principal idea of the boys is for "u girl" be good on the relation and this is one of the topic most iconic of all the couples, ¿What can I do for San Valentine?
On internet exist a lot of information even exist some tutorial videos that teach how is the way more easy and cheap that you can make the best San Valentine ever.
1. Romantic Dinner: Most of the Iconic things that a girl want for San Valentine is a romantic dinner, with candles and some flowers, that is a vintage that every girl love, and and extra is that not bye the food, a classic dinner made up by the chef (you)
NOVOTEL
2. Flowers: This classic way has been object of love, regard and affection, if you dont have to mucho money to invite for a dinner a simple way for your couple could be a bouquet of flowers and your beauty lady will be in love for that classic way that you can express your afection.
FLORA QUEEN
3. Candys: By the time all the candys has become in a way for love, even the boxes of chocolates in most of the cases are made up by a shape of a heart, this gift will be very cheap, less than $10, except if you buy expensive chocolates, but the girls they do not see the prices they just see the action that the men do for her.
BLOOTHINS
On the next video you could see the some other examples
Sources: Tasty videos
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"While Valentine's Day is celebrated in most countries, different cultures have developed their own traditions for this festival." (Roses Only, 2018)
There are different perspectives on how to celebrate this day as the delivery of special gifts and go to visit a particular place, although it is very true that in different countries it is celebrated in a romantic way. However, at the social level it has become a subject that implies an economic benefit
Source: (my's Gourmet Apples, 2017)
This picture represents a economic benefit for companies that are dedicated to the sale of this type of gift directed for a market segment that requires material things to celebrate Valentine's Day
(Reeves, 2018)
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Valentine's Day is a traditional celebration of Anglo-Saxon countries that has been implanted in other countries throughout the twentieth century mainly in which couples in love express their love and affection to each other. It is celebrated on February 14, the Valentine's Day. In some countries it is known as Valentine's Day and in others as the day of love and friendship. In Anglo-America around 1840, Esther A. Howland began selling the first massive Valentine postcards, known as "valentines," with symbols such as the heart shape or Cupid. Also on this day is common the tradition of giving roses to those people who have a special affection. There are several theories that give this date the origin of Valentine's Day. In the Nordic countries it is during these dates when birds are paired and mated, hence this period is seen as a symbol of love and creation. (golonmead, s.f.)
"The day of love and friendship" as we know it here in Ecuador. It has become a very commercial day, since the goal of this should be to celebrate as the name says "Love and Friendship" but instead, people use it as an excuse to ask for a gift or some present for them .
For couples in love this day would be another pretext to be able to see and enjoy their company.
Personally I can say that it is very nice to celebrate somehow this day with the people you love most and I have done it, especially with my family and my true friends.
In other countries the essential thing would be especially in schools, the typical letters of friendship that each of the students should receive and in the same way the teachers, since it is a celebration of where a friendship should have grown.
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The day of love ... the day you can share all that love you feel for that friend, boyfriend, family, among others. This day is very special, because you can be honest with the person you like and declare your love for her or him.
It is important to know that Valentine's Day is not celebrated equally in all countries, such as Italy that regularly do not usually celebrate this day, just as there are countries that enjoy like in Ecuador, Brazil, the United States, Argentina and many more.
Source: (Latin Times, 2018)
The celebration of the day of love has manifested itself in
different ways around the world, as it mentions (Latin Time, 2018):
GUATEMALA: celebrations in this country are given in the same way as in the United States, exchanging flowers and letters that can be addressed to a friend, a boyfriend or girlfriend. All in order to show affection
CHINA: here is celebrated on Valentine's Day on a different date, during the month of August through Qixi festivals, and these days are taken as a perfect opportunity to marry the most beloved person.
These countries have their customs and traditions according to this day, around the world do not occur in the same way but sometimes some maintain the custom as we move from generation to generation.
In the word exist a lot of people who do not
like the day of Valentine because they are of the opinion that there should not
be a specific day in the calendar to give love and give presents to loved ones,
if not they think it is an action that must be done every day. On the other
hand, millions of people in the world anxiously await Valentine's Day, because
they feel it is a primordial date to show an infinite love to all their loved
ones, whether mother, father, son, daughter, husband, wife, boyfriend,
girlfriend and even the teachers.
Due to this, there are different ways to make a
perfect day of Valentine's Day, as simple ideas to demonstrate the love towards
friend, families and acquaintances.
Many people decide to write letters with
decorative paper, give chocolates, cookies and flowers to show the person that
has a place in his heart. In addition, a lot of person cook a fabulous
breakfast, make her coffee and send her out with a cup to go. Bonus points if
you bought some whipped cream the night before and snick some into her to-go
mug, but other prefer a romantic night. In the next video you can see a different tips.
Source: (Gómez, 2013)
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